【子禾说】
终不是那八面玲珑的女子。
讨不了那四海八荒的喜。
只落得围一炉寂静的烟火,
与独处相安，与万事言和。
以文字，以音乐，
以花香浅草，以温暖纯良。
——《独处相安》
闲暇时必定选择喝茶，喝茶可独酌，也可几人共饮。
择一处郊野*坐静**，手捧香茗，聆听古乐，会让人神驰千里，物我两忘，品饮水中君子，不能不说是一种乐趣。
茶事的种类繁多，古代有“三时茶”之说，即按三顿饭的时间分为朝会（早茶）、书会（午茶）、夜会（晚茶）；
现在则有“茶事七事”之说，即：早晨的茶事、拂晓的茶事、正午的茶事、夜晚的茶事、饭后的茶事、专题茶事和临时茶事。
至于我，一个编外茶虫，虽不精通茶事的门道，但每次喝茶的那种仪式感是无论如何都要摆出来的，碗、盏、则、夹，各种茶器一样不能落下。
不是流行一句话嘛：喝茶的女人不一般。我，全力以赴做个“二般”吧。
《茶经》中写：
茶有九难：一是制造，二是识别，三是器具，四是火力，五是水质，六是炙烤，七是捣碎，八是烤煮，九是品饮。
越州瓷、岳瓷皆青，青则益茶，茶作红白之色。邢州瓷白，茶色红；寿州瓷黄，茶色紫；洪州瓷褐，茶色黑，悉不宜茶。［1］
怪不得先人陆羽被尊为“茶圣”一千多年。一口上等香茶，要经历九个难；茶叶和瓷器的匹配度更是外行人看不懂的。
回眸自己的那堆干草和破罐子，寒碜三秒后泡了壶82年的普洱压压惊。
每每和友人相聚喝茶，茶叶的品质和价格，茶器的产地和级别我都记不住，反而是那种与友人闲聊时的氛围，倒让我思绪万千。
我总是极力地想把朋友的言辞、喝茶时的动作一一典藏，唯恐曲终人散，再无相聚之时。
我喜欢茶道里关于“一生一会”的说法。意思是说，我们每次与朋友对坐喝茶，都应该非常珍惜。
因为一生里这样的喝茶可能只有这一回，一旦过了，就再也不可得了。
一生中只有这一次聚会，是我们在喝茶的时候，会沉入一种疼惜与深刻，不至于错失那最美好的因缘。
生命虽然无常，但并不至于太短暂。
与好朋友也可能会常常对坐喝茶，但是每一次喝茶都是仅有的一次，每一次相会都和过去、未来的任何一次不同。
人的一生会遇到的人数大约是8263563人。其中会打招呼的有39778人，会变得熟悉的有3619人，会彼此亲近的只有275人。
那么能和自己坐下来并且面对面喝茶的人又会有几个呢？
有时我在想，人这一生一定是为了某一个特别的相会而来的。
——秦子禾
【ZiHe.Theory】
Coming For a Special Meeting
I'm not that versatile woman in the end.
I can't please those four seas and eight wastelands.
It only ended up surrounded by a silent fireworks,Peace with solitude, peace with everything.
With words, with music,With the fragrance of flowers and light grass, with warmth and purity!
—— Alone and In Peace
In leisure time, one must choose to drink tea, either alone or with a few people.
Sitting quietly in a suburban area, holding fragrant tea in hand, and listening to ancient music can make people wander for thousands of miles, forgetting both things and me.
Tasting the gentleman in drinking water is undoubtedly a pleasure.
There are various types of tea events, and in ancient times, there was a saying of "three hour tea", which was divided into morning tea (morning tea), book tea (afternoon tea), and night tea (evening tea) according to the time of the three meals;
Now there is the saying of "seven tea events", which includes morning tea events, dawn tea events, noon tea events, night tea events, after dinner tea events, special tea events, and temporary tea events.
As for me, as an outsider of tea, although I am not proficient in the art of tea, the sense of ceremony that accompanies every time I drink tea must always be displayed.
Bowls, cups, utensils, clips, and all kinds of tea utensils cannot be left behind.
There is a popular saying that women who drink tea are unusual.
Me, do my best to be a "two".
In the "Classic of Tea", Lu Yu wrote:Tea has nine difficulties: first, manufacturing, second, identification, third, utensils, fourth, firepower, fifth, water quality, sixth, roasting, seventh, crushing, eighth, roasting and boiling, and ninth, tasting.
Yue Zhou porcelain and Yue porcelain are both green, and green is beneficial for tea. The tea has a red and white color. Xingzhou porcelain is white, with a brown red color; Shouzhou porcelain yellow, tawny purple; Hongzhou porcelain is brown and brown in color, making it unsuitable for tea.
No wonder the ancestor Lu Yu was revered as the "Tea Saint" for over a thousand years. A sip of first-class fragrant tea goes through nine difficulties; The match between tea and porcelain is even more incomprehensible to outsiders.
Looking back at my pile of hay and broken jars, I was stunned by the 82 year old Pu'er tea that I had soaked in for three seconds.
Whenever I gather with friends to drink tea, I can't remember the quality and price of tea, the origin and grade of tea utensils.
Instead, the atmosphere of chatting with friends makes me think a lot.
I always try my best to keep a record of my friends' words and actions while drinking tea, fearing that they will end up together and never reunite again.
I like the saying in the tea ceremony about "one moment in a lifetime".
The meaning is that every time we sit with friends and drink tea, we should cherish it very much.
Because this kind of tea drinking may only happen once in a lifetime, and once it's over, you can't have it anymore.
There is only one gathering in our lives, and when we drink tea, we will sink into a kind of love and depth, so as not to miss the most beautiful fate.
Although life is impermanent, it is not too short. Sitting with good friends and drinking tea may also be frequent, but every tea is the only time, and every meeting is different from any past or future meeting.
The number of people that a person will encounter in their lifetime is approximately 8263563. Among them, there are 39778 people who will greet, 3619 people who will become familiar, and only 275 people who will be close to each other.
So how many people will be able to sit down with themselves and have tea face-to-face?
Sometimes I think that a person's life must have come for a special meeting.
——Zihe.Qin
［1］：越州瓷和岳州瓷都是青色，青色衬托茶水能增强茶色，茶水呈现绿色。邢州瓷是白色，茶水呈现红色；寿州瓷是黄色，茶水呈现紫色；洪州瓷是褐色，茶水呈现黑色，都不适合做茶碗。
[1]: Both Yuezhou porcelain and Yuezhou porcelain are cyan, which enhances the color of tea and makes the tea appear green. Xingzhou porcelain is white, and tea appears red; Shouzhou porcelain is yellow, and tea appears purple; Hongzhou porcelain is brown, and the tea appears black, making it unsuitable for making tea bowls.
