柯林斯说：很久不见你了，亲爱的海伦你还好吧，很想你过来问问你，你呢在干嘛，一切都好，你最近啥样子？
Collins said, "I haven't seen you for a long time. My dear Helen, how are you? I want you to come and ask you. What are you doing? Everything is fine. How are you recently?
海伦说：是的，我们好一段时间没说话了，你现在在哪里，你上次和我说的设备问题解决了吗？
Helen said, "Yes, we haven't talked for a long time. Where are you now? Have you solved the equipment problem you told me last time?"
柯林斯说：公司团队的同事联系银行，处理好资金问题，现在没事了，我在香港这边工作，看到你更新朋友圈，过来找你说会话，你有没有微信群，邀请我几个。
Collins said: The company team's colleagues contact bank, handle money issues, now there is nothing, I work in Hong Kong, see you update friends circle, come over, you have a message, you have a WeChat group, invite me a few.
海伦说：手机微信比较卡，我不用微信群，只要你一切顺利就好，我说过我一直看好你的，相信自己，一切都会好起来的，希望远方的你一切都好。
Helen said: Mobile WeChat comparison card, I don't have to use WeChat group, as long as you are going well, I said that I have been optimistic about you, believe in yourself, everything will be fine, I hope that you are in the distance.
柯林斯说：我记得你给我说过，你学金融投资的，给你推荐一个软件做*币特比**投资，可以挣点钱。
Collins said: "I remember you told me, you study financial investment, recommend a software to do Bitcoin investment, can make some money.".
海伦说：柯林斯你倒是记得很清楚，我是学投资的，但是我不痴迷于挣钱，也对很多投资没太多兴趣，如果说长期持有投资，我会不断的投资提升自己，让自己变得比过去的自己优秀，我觉得只有自我投资才是最具长期投资的资产。
Helen said: Collins, you remember very clearly that I studied investment, but I am not obsessed with making money, and I am not very interested in many investments. If I hold investment for a long time, I will continue to invest to improve myself and make myself better than myself in the past. I think only self-investment is the most long-term investment asset.
柯林斯说：我亲爱的海伦，我觉得你特别优秀，我最近离岸中生病了，然后在接受治疗，我想委托你帮我收一下一个包裹，因为你是我在中国最值得信任的人。
Collins said: My dear Helen, I think you are very excellent. I have been ill offshore recently, and I am receiving treatment. I would like to entrust you to collect a package for me, because you are the most trustworthy person in China.
海伦说：你具体指的是什么东西，我身体什么情况，有没有好点，我希望你安心养病，好好调养会没事的。
Helen said, "What exactly are you referring to? What is my physical condition? Is it better? I hope you can rest assured and take good care of yourself. It will be all right.".
柯林斯说：我有个好消息要告诉你，你要注意听，亲爱的，我现在要告诉你的事是我们彼此秘密，你能保证你永远不要告诉任何人吗？
"I have good news for you," said Collins. "You must pay attention, my dear. What I am going to tell you now is our secret. Can you promise that you will never tell anyone?"
海伦说：有时候我不想听别人的秘密，我觉得会有压力，如果你觉得你秘密的可以不用告诉我，这样我们之间相处会轻松很多，不过感谢你信任我，会有想告诉我秘密的冲动。
Helen said: Sometimes I don't want to listen to others' secrets, I think it will have a pressure. If you think that your secret can not tell me, so that we will get a lot easier, but thank you, I will tell me secret.The impulse.
柯林斯说：我在工作这些年里，我积累了一笔很丰厚的报酬，有一百多万美金还有我在韩国的一些证件文件，对我来说很重要，你和孩子是我生命中最重要的人，我想来中国，好好照顾你们。
Collins said: I am working in the years, I have accumulated a very rich remuneration, more than a million dollars and some documents in Korea, it is very important to me, you and your child are my life.The most important person, I want to come to China, take care of you.
海伦说：这么重要的东西和那么大一笔金额的资金，你还是自己保管最为安全，我感谢你对我信任和善意，但是这对我来说是很困难的事。
Helen said, "It's safest for you to keep such an important thing and such a large amount of money by yourself. I appreciate your trust and kindness to me, but it's very difficult for me.".
柯林斯说：我在海外工作无法不能接受任何东西，你和孩子是我最信任的人，也是我在中国最信任的人，你替我收下包裹，等我病好起来我过来取，你替我保管好这个包裹就好。
Collins said: I can't accept anything overseas. You and your child are my most trusted person. It is also the most trusted person in China. You will accept the parcel for me. I will come to take it. You will take it.I will keep this package.
海伦说：好吧，我把地址发你的，你根据地址寄过去就可以，从没有收到这么大包裹，我猛然觉得挺不安的。
Helen said, "Well, I'll send you the address, and you can send it according to the address. I've never received such a big package before, and I suddenly feel quite uneasy.".
柯林斯说：你们甘肃经济发展如何，如果我病好了，我打算在你们当地投资一些医疗器械，学校，为你所在的城市做点事，有你在的地方对我而言就是我的未来。
Collins said: Your Gansu economy development, if I am sick, I plan to invest some medical devices, schools, do something for your city, there is a place where you are in my future.
海伦说：你真的很像个英雄，一个拯救者，一个韩国人来我们这里投资，确实可以造福当地的老百姓，这是一件很了不起的事。
Helen said: "You are really like a hero, a savior, a Korean to invest here, can really benefit the local people, this is a great thing.".
柯林斯说：当我失去自己的父母家人孩子的时候，我人生陷入无尽的痛苦中走不出来，而你就是我生命中的光芒，带给我温暖和希望，也是我灵魂的救赎，我们是灵魂伴侣，我们永远都会在一起，我想好好照顾你和你的家人，你在的地方就是家。
Collins said: When I lost my parents, my life can't be can't walk in the endless pain, and you are the light in my life, bring me warmth and hope, and the redemption of my soul, we are soulPartner, we will always be together, I want to take care of you and your family, you are home.
海伦说：你可真是上帝送给我的礼物，我该多幸运你这样的人才会让我遇见，应该感恩命运的安排是如此的神奇。
Helen said, "You are really a gift from God. How lucky I am to meet someone like you. I should be grateful that fate is so magical.".
柯林斯说：我知道我在你心里很有安全感，我们很多时候有类似的价值观和思想，很幸运你能够感受到我很多想法，我想我们命中注定彼此相爱，你现在在做什么？给我发一张你现在的照片。
Collins said: I know that I am very safe in your heart, we have similar values and ideas, very fortunate, you can feel my ideas, I think we are destined to love each other, what are you doing now?Send me a photo of your present.
海伦说：天冷了，我去了趟超市给家人孩子买了电热毯，你多注意身体，我帮我婆婆做点事。
Helen said: "The weather is cold, I went to the supermarket to buy an electric blanket for my family and children, you pay more attention to your health, I help my mother-in-law to do something.".
柯林斯说：你对家人很好，亲爱的海伦，你很美，你项链很配你，我很欣赏，我还好，胃口不太好，不想吃东西，跟你聊会天好多了，不得不承认，你可真是我生命中的天使。
Collins said: You have a good family, dear Helen, you are beautiful, your necklace is very worthy of you, I appreciate, I am fine, the appetite is not very good, don't want to eat, talk to you, there is much moreAcknowledging, you are really an angel in my life.
海伦说：我挺喜欢饰品，很多韩国的饰品我是很偏爱的，是我喜欢的风格，我挺喜欢给自己买饰品。
Helen said: "I like jewelry, a lot of Korean jewelry I am very partial to, is my favorite style, I like to buy jewelry for myself.".
柯林斯说：看到你有种想要迫不及待飞到你身边的感觉想要拥抱亲吻你的想法很迫切，以后我会送给你很多你喜欢的珠宝，只要你喜欢就好，我喜欢看到你开心的样子，笑容温暖让我内心很治愈也很踏实。亲爱的海伦，你邮箱有没有收到取件的邮件信息。
Collins said: Seeing that you have a kind of feeling that you can't wait to fly to your side, I want to embrace your idea. I will give you a lot of jewelry you like, as long as you like it, I like to see you.Happy look, smile warmly makes my heart, it is very conducive to it.Dear Helen, your mailbox has mail information that received pickup.
海伦说：还没收到什么包裹信息，我知道这对你很重要，我收到邮件后会告诉你的。
Helen said, "I haven't received any information about the package yet. I know it's important to you. I'll let you know when I get the mail.".
柯林斯说：以后有什么都不要怕，有我在，我都会陪你，你是我的道德指南也是我心里那个善良的天使，但是以后就让我保护你，好好照顾你，你要听我的话，按照我说的去做，因为你是我的一切，不舍得你为过往很多事不开心，我希望我爱的人幸福快乐。
Collins said: If there is anything else, I am, I will accompany you, you are my moral guide is also a kind angel in my heart, but I will let me protect you, take care of you, you have to listen to me., According to what I said, because you are everything, don't give you a lot of things for the past, I hope that the people I love will be happy.
海伦说：我打开邮箱看了，说你寄的快递包裹被扣押在机场，需要支付费用一万五千运费，不然包裹会被检查之类的话，和我们这里快递不怎么一样，听起来很麻烦。
Helen said: "I opened the mailbox and said that the express package you sent was detained at the airport, and you had to pay a fee of 15,000 for the freight, otherwise the package would be checked and so on. It's not the same as our express delivery here. It sounds very troublesome.".
柯林斯说：你按照快递员给你说的要求支付费用就可以拿到快递了，他们给你指定的账户和付款信息，你给他们，包裹里有百万美金和文件，我不想丢失。
"You pay what the courier tells you to get it," Collins said. "They give you the account and the payment information. You give them the package with millions of dollars and documents. I don't want to lose it.".
海伦说：我可没那么多钱付什么各种费用，你微信把钱转我给你付，我不收到付，你的包裹被困在我们中国海关那里也挺安全，比我保管好多了，你那么多钱在我这里我会觉得特别有压力，现在扣下来我反而踏实了。
Helen said: I don't have much money to pay all kinds. Your WeChat will turn the money to you, I don't receive it, your parcel is trapped in our China Customs, it is quite safe, more than I keep it.So much money, I will feel particularly stress, now I am cut down now.
柯林斯说：你想办法借点钱把费用交了，你可以得到百万美金，比你现在那点费用多很多倍，我这边没办法给你钱，包裹对我很重要，你一定要帮我，你是我最信任我人。
Collins said: You want to pay a fee to pay the fee, you can get millions of dollars, more times than you now, I can't give you money here, the package is very important to me, you must helpI, you are my most trust me.
海伦说：我觉得钱对我来说够用就可以，我压根觉得太多钱挺麻烦的一件事，我喜欢有个心灵相伴的人陪我说话，我觉得挺好，我根本不会不需要你给钱，每次读者里有人给我很多钱，我都会拒收退回，何况这种我搞不懂的海外邮寄包裹。海关扣下来反而让我感觉踏实很多。
Helen said: I think the money is enough for me. I feel that too much money is very trouble. I like people who have a heart to talk to me. I feel very good, I will not notNeed you to give money, someone gives me a lot of money every reader, I will refuse to return it, let alone, this kind of mailing parcel I don't understand.The customs buckled down and let me feel a lot.
柯林斯说：你就不管我了吗，你支付费用去领取包裹，对我很重要，你说了你很爱我的，我还在生病，我病好了找你拿包裹，你都答应好了，怎么反悔了。
Collins said: You don't care about me, you pay the fee to get the package, it is very important to me, you said that you love me very much, I am still sick, I am sick, I will have a package, you have promised it.How to repent.
海伦说：走到这里，我不得不承认，柯林斯你这个人设挺符合我内心深处对理想伴侣的审美，长在我的审美点，其实你是非常好的演员，我觉得我也不差，但是我们到此为止，因为我内心对金钱没什么贪欲，你不管换多少套路，我都不可能做超出我能力的事。
Helen said: I have to admit that Collins you have settled in aesthetics in my heart to the ideal partner, in fact, you are very good actors, I think I am not bad., But we are here, because I have no greed for money in my heart, you can't do anything that I am competing.
柯林斯说：包裹上有你的地址电话，如果包裹被检查到发现很多钱，你会被抓进入坐牢，会涉及洗钱犯罪，你难道不怕吗？
Collins said: "The package has your address and phone number, if the package is checked to find a lot of money, you will be arrested into prison, will be involved in money laundering crimes, you are not afraid of it?"
海伦说：如果是你说的这样，那就这样吧，我接受发生的任何事，一切都是最好的安排不是吗？我内心深处没什么恐惧的，更没什么怕的。我们两个也算最佳拍档，即使我刚开始怀疑你，但是我不否认我希望我们相处，你可以有所触动，但是相处差不多三个月，你各种套路和我保持关系只是为了钱，而我刚好是那个不怎么贪钱且没很多钱的人，不管你用什么套路，都不可能成功。
Helen said: If you are like this, then this way, what happens, everything is the best arrangement?I have no fear in my heart, and it is even more fearful.We are also the best partner, even if I start to doubt you, I don't deny that I hope us to get along, you can touch it, but get along with almost three months, your various routines and I maintain relationship just for money,And I just is the person who is not greedy and there is not much money, no matter what the route you use, it is impossible to succeed.
柯林斯说：你既然早知道，为什么还保持联系，你可真的是天使？不过跟你相处也挺开心。
Collins said, "If you knew, why did you keep in touch? You are really an angel."? But I'm happy to get along with you.
海伦说：以前看王阳明抓了强盗的故事，故事说哪怕多坏的人都有良知存在，只是做坏事的时候良知被掩盖了，如果唤醒一个人良知，这个人会变好，我很想知道书上读到故事在你身上有没有用，我对这点有好奇心，还有一点你们诈骗团队写的剧本挺好的，符合人性心理，但是我现在明白，有的人其实很聪明，只是走错路，*子骗**如果不骗人怎么还叫*子骗**，我们相处三个月，十天左右的时间，我发现但是我不想说出来。
Helen said: I used to read the story of Wang Yangming catching a robber. The story says that even bad people have conscience, but when they do bad things, their conscience is covered up. If you awaken a person's conscience, the person will become better. I really want to know if the story I read in the book is useful for you. I am curious about this. There is also a good script written by your fraud team, which is in line with human psychology. But now I understand that some people are actually very smart, but they just go the wrong way. If a cheater doesn't cheat people, how can he still be called a cheater? We got along for three months, about ten days. I found out, but I didn't want to say it.
柯林斯说：你可真是人间值得，我们后会无期。
Collins said: "You are really worthy of the world, we will see you in the future.".
有朋友问我，你在相处中发现他是个*子骗**，你有没有恨过，我对柯林斯在我生命里出现的三个月里，我有的只是感恩，他的人设刚好完美符合我经常看韩剧时候那个完美恋人人设的呈现，和他相处中发现自己被她带进去，让我感觉到自己内心深处的爱与被爱。
在我微信里有这类网络电信诈骗很多，但是其他人我没感觉，而刚好柯林斯完美的的人设符合我内心的设定，他是个演技不错的人，他来到我生命中也是我在那个当下刚好需要有人充当一个陪伴者，即使我知道他也只是为了骗财，但是在他陪伴中，我生命处在一个挺幸福的状态。
有时候会想，如果真的有这样一个人，而我的婚姻又该何去何从，我当时有过这样的痛苦，当我发现自己在婚内还会对另一个人会产生感情，既然上帝安排他是*子骗**，我觉得这很好，上帝知道我是个决定困难户，所以帮我做了最好的安排。
一个*子骗**为了骗取另一个人的信任而认真的陪伴的样子确实挺可爱，在当时我的生活状态里，我刚好需要有个人陪伴而去做自我调整，其实幸福的感觉是拥抱变化，感恩生命中出现的任何一个人，他*子骗**的人设才不会给我家庭各方面造成伤害和困扰。
有时候在想，过往看韩剧那种甜甜的恋爱的幻想竟然被这么一个完全符合自己内心感觉的*子骗**而显现在生命里，并且感觉天意安排如此巧妙，在我内心面对平淡的婚姻里出现一个完美符合我内心人设的人让我感觉欲罢不能的人陪我成长，而后消失在我生命中，留下给我一段幸福时光，却不伤害到其他人，对我而言就是一个完美的结局。
网络这类型诈骗太多了，很多时候我没骗，只是当你去感受而不去占有控制时，也就不会受骗，也不会深陷情感而做出超出自己能力范围的事，也不会想要伤害家人，即使在我没发现对方*子骗**的那一刻，我不得不承认我确实对柯林斯怦然心动，并且这种心里美好的状态一直持续，我知道他是*子骗**我特开心，因为我在当下不用做任何选择，到时候他会走，我不会在婚姻和爱情里因为做选择而痛苦。
后期看到网络有很多被类似套路骗了不少钱的女性，有很多女性被骗几十万，并且很多女性还是高学历条件很好，各方面条件很好，怎么还会掉进去。
很多陷入冒充美国大兵等情色诈骗的团队剧本，清醒之后都会自责：我连对方的面都没见过，为什么我会认定他就是那个在伊拉克战场出生入死的美国将军，还会给我带来一笔财产？
说白了，就是以偏概全，和老俗话说的“情人眼里出西施”是一个意思。也就是说，对方身上一个特别突出的优点让我们意乱情迷，忽略了对其他特征的正确认知，反而通过这个突出优点脑补出一个完美的形象。
仔细想想冒充美国大兵诈骗不正是如此吗？
对方加你为好友后，先发来几张战场的图片、开战斗机的图片、英勇杀敌的图片，让你觉得那些活在电影电视中的美国的大兵真的就在和你聊天，他们身上的英雄气质征服了你那颗少女心，在没有去了解他其他方面的情况时，就已经把所有对美国大兵的完美想象都强加在这个*子骗**身上，暗自以身相许了。
其实，晕轮效应，不但存在于冒充公检法诈骗，那些冒充大款、冒充富婆甚至冒充处女招嫖类的诈骗都利用了这个晕轮效应。所以，再遇到陌生人示爱的时候，千万别被一道“光晕”遮盖了双眼。记得多冷静下来思考一下，自己这么普通的人，为什么被远在天涯的美国大兵相中。
经历这类情色诈骗话术可以发现，*子骗**在为自己打造人设的时候，并不是把自己打造得完美无缺，反而会故意说自己有几个明显的缺点。
比如海伦遇到的*子骗**柯林斯把自己打造成一个韩国的高富帅，他会告诉告诉海伦内心很多痛苦无助和对对对方的需要，竟然如此完美的契合了我十年前有过一段抑郁的时光，而我那个阶段刚好缺失一个人去，反过来十多年后有另一个人呈现我十年前的自己，让我通过另一个人设的投射接纳和陪伴过去的那个自己。
很多人会问，既然是骗人，干嘛不把自己打造成一个完美的人呢？是*子骗**蠢吗？不是的，其实刚好是*子骗**极度聪明，他们利用了心理学上的“暴露缺点效应”。
所谓“暴露缺点效应”是指，一个人适当地暴露自己一些小的缺点和无助，让人觉得他是一个比较容易相处的普通人，是一个真诚可爱的人，因为没有任何一个人愿意和“完美”的人相处，那样会压抑、恐慌和自卑。
编写诈骗剧本的人相信，勇于将自己的缺点暴露，可能会使人失望，难受一阵子，但经过这“阵痛”之后，人们就会遗忘他的缺点，反而更多地注意他的优点，感受他的魅力。
我相信很多人懂得了这个心理学的原理，就能感受到*子骗**在打造人设时考虑之周全，也能悟出来一些谈恋爱的道理吧——千万不要在你的爱人面前装“完美”，那样没有人愿意和你厮守终生，和一个完美的人相处太累！