如果父母脾气总是不稳定，容易暴躁
If the parents are always unstable and irritable,
同时总会采用*压打**式教育
At the same time, there is always an oppressive education,
从心理学角度看这类父母，很大可能就是自恋型人格障碍
From a psycho logical point of view, such parents are most likely a narcissistic personality disorder,
就是这类人总会对孩子特续性*压打**
It's that these people keep suppressing their children,
比如你小时候有天好不容易考九十多分
For example, when you were a kid, you finally got over 90 points,
可父母不光没夸奖，反而说这有什么骄傲的
But parents not only did not praise,but said what is proud,
没有我们，你能考这个成绩吗
You could do this without us,
长大后你获得一些成就,父母也只会说你这算什么
When you grow up and you get some parents will only say that you are nothing.
我年轻时候怎样,再说没我们你现在能有出息嘛
What happened when I was young? And without us, you can do well now.
他就是只会把你的成功转移到他们身上
He just just just transfers your success to them,
同时这类人永远不会承认错误你说他哪错了
At the same time, such people will never admit their mistakes, why do you say he is wrong,
他只会说有这事嘛我说过嘛
He would only way this, but I did,
时间久了你只会陷入内耗中,所以如果你想摆脱这种内耗
Over time, you will only fall into internal friction,So if you want to get rid of this internal friction,
你最重要的是先识别,然后去树立自己的边界感
Your most important is to identify it first,and then to your own sense of boundaries,
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