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世上哪里有统一的教育男孩或教育女孩的方法呢，每一个男孩都是他自己，每一个女孩都是她自己，和别的男孩或女孩都不一样。你所能做的是爱这个不一样，理解这个不一样，让这个不一样成为价值。
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潮涨潮落，在海滩上不断卷来又卷走许多贝壳。幼儿期的语言就像海滩上的贝壳，岁月的潮水把它们不断卷来又卷走，在后一年的海滩上，你很难再捡到前一年海滩上的贝壳。
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个性是一个秘密，成长中有许多不可知的因素。在很大程度上，教育是赌博，无人能预料结果是输是赢，或者，根本就无所谓输赢。
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在动物界，后代一旦有了行动的能力，离开父母的怀抱是自然的事情。动物的家庭只在孕育期短暂地存在，妻离子散乃是天经地义。唯有人类是把血亲联系长久维持的，但是，大自然的规定仍然在起作用，让每个人在幼儿期挣脱父母的怀抱，在长大后开始独立的人生，而前者仿佛是后者的预演。
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物有其时，每个孩子有自己的生长节奏。和同龄孩子相比，他似乎成熟得慢，直到现在仍天真而单纯。我们不逼迫他快速成熟，让他顺应自己的天性慢慢成长，也许是更适合于他的方式。
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我面临的难题是，怎样保护你的身心健康，让你不受挫折的伤害，我的责任是做你的童年的守护人。
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即使同父同母所生，孩子也会有很不同的个性，决不可以用同一把尺子去要求和衡量。正确的做法是，让每个孩子都因为自己的优点而获得荣耀，快乐自信。
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在这个世界上，最让我牵挂的是这一双儿女。但是，我只能当下牵挂，对于他们的未来，我无法预知，鉴于我的年龄，也可断定将看不到他们的大部分未来。这真是无可奈何之事，只好如此。看着叩叩懵懂地成长，看着啾啾毅然决然地去美国上学，我心想，他们会有他们的生活，我不能规划，不能参与，只能祝福。父母对于子女，除此之外还能怎样呢？
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我们虽然暂时被孩子拴住了，生活似乎单调，但我们过的是一种最实在也最本质的生活，美好而充实。与之相比，外面那些热闹的社交活动显得何其空虚轻飘。
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这乐融融的生活情景只是暂时的，孩子会长大，将独自走入这个复杂的社会，命运不可知，而我会死，不再能看见和守护他们的未来。不过，人生的真相如此，你有什么办法呢？
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Where in the world is there a uniform way of educating a boy or a girl, every boy is himself and every girl is herself, different from any other boy or girl. All you can do is love the difference, understand the difference, and make the difference a value.
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The tide ebbs and flows, rolling up and down many shells on the beach. Languages in childhood are like shells on the beach. The tides of the years keep them swept up and down. On the beach of the next year, it is difficult for you to pick up the shells on the beach of the previous year.
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Personality is a secret, and there are many unknowable factors in growing up. To a large extent, education is a gamble, and no one can predict whether the outcome will be a winner or a loser, or that it doesn't matter at all.
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In the animal kingdom, it is natural for offspring to leave the arms of their parents once they have the ability to act. Animal families only exist briefly during the gestation period, and it is only natural that wives and ions are separated. Only human beings maintain blood kinship for a long time, but the rules of nature are still at work, allowing everyone to break free from their parents' arms in childhood and start an independent life when they grow up, and the former seems to be a rehearsal of the latter. .
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Every child has his own growth rhythm. Compared with children of his age, he seems to have matured slowly, and he is still innocent and simple until now. We don't force him to mature quickly, let him grow up slowly according to his own nature, which may be a more suitable way for him.
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The problem I am facing is how to protect your physical and mental health so that you are not hurt by setbacks. My responsibility is to be the guardian of your childhood.
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Even if they are born to the same parents, children will have very different personalities, and they should never be demanded and measured with the same ruler. The right way is to let every child be honored because of his own merits, be happy and confident.
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In this world, I am most concerned about these two children. However, I can only care about the present, I can't predict their future, and given my age, I can conclude that most of their futures will not be seen. It's really helpless, that's all. Watching Kau Kau grow up ignorantly, and watching Twee Tweet resolutely go to the United States to go to school, I thought to myself, they will have their lives, I can't plan, I can't participate, I can only bless. What else can parents do to their children?
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Although we are temporarily chained by our children and our life seems monotonous, we live a most real and essential life, beautiful and fulfilling. In comparison, the lively social activities outside seem empty and airy.
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This happy life situation is only temporary, the children will grow up and will walk into this complex society alone, the fate is unknown, and I will die, no longer able to see and protect their future. However, the truth of life is like this, what can you do?