-01-
当自己遇到一些无法回答的话题，与其与对方硬碰硬，不如想办法回避话题。
有效地回避话题，不是懦弱的表现，而是给自己留有分寸，从而在交际中掌握主动性。
这个时候，可以巧妙地绕开话题，以免碰触到尴尬的言语，让自己陷入进退两难的境地。
在发现对方有故意将自己绕进难堪话题的时候，我们完全不用见招拆招，其实以包容的心态来应对，也是一种上乘之法。
说话最能暴露一个人，只要你说话，我就能了解你。人与人之间来往，语言，能决定彼此的关系，也能决定在别人眼里，你是一个怎样的“你”。
黄渤参加《鲁豫有约》，节目中鲁豫问他：“现在觉得自己特别火了吧？”搁别的明星，肯定是谦虚地否认，黄渤却说：“都能来《鲁豫有约》了，能不火吗？”
-02-
Venus interviewed Yang Fang and asked her, "You, Liu Yifei, Wang Rodan and Huang Shengyi have been transformed into"Four Little Flowers". Which of the four people do you think has the most knives?
Yang Wei: "I move the most knives. Because I had children."
It is believed that each of us has encountered information misplacement in the process of socializing with others.
When you suddenly make a mistake, you forget what you were prepared to deal with. You will fall into a social dilemma at once, and you don't know what to do.
At this time, the women who can talk and the women who can't talk stand high and low. Talking women can use self-mockery to turn embarrassment into harmony.
Different tones have different effects on speech.
-03-
好语气才能有好关系，好情绪才能有好运气。同一句话，说话的语气不同，传达的情感不同，产生的效果也不同。
我们都会有这样的记忆：你已经记不清某人给你说了什么，但你永远记得那一刻他留给你的感觉。
董卿在录制《欢乐中国行》云南大理篇时，不慎在楼梯上踩空摔了下来。她向观众们解释说：“我真的是为大理的美景所倾倒，倒在了三塔寺下啊！”这样的幽默和敬业，也让观众们理解了节目的意外中断。
It's really important to speak well. Let others be willing to listen to you and listen to you. It will bring comfort and pleasure to others. It's good for others and selfishness. Why not?
"Good words are warm in winter, bad words hurt in June." Don't let your mouth be a sharp weapon for hurting people. Hold your tongue well and be a person who can speak and speak.