30多岁正好是职业关键时期，如果不喜欢你是没有精力和你劈情操的，还是避开吧，她们自己有数的会主动争取，没数的你娶回来也是一堆烦恼。
年轻的小姑娘多香，去找她们。
高赞指向性太明显，女公务员，肉夹馍，送花，恶魔之眼，哈工大老公。
不出意外就是我。
我先说一下，我为什么2019年，31岁了才开始相亲。
我高中复读一年，大学毕业工作不理想，24岁考研，25上岸某财经大学，28岁研究生毕业，第一次公考面试被刷，30岁省考上岸税务局。30岁之前都是马不停特的考研考证考公务员。大学错过了恋爱最佳时机，我考研期间，考公期间，论文期间是做不到分心找男朋友的。
相亲事件
我和高赞男根本没有任何人介绍，他来我们局办事，因为是我同事的朋友，我在大厅跟岗学习，作为新人负责接待他，给他倒了一杯水，他就问我的同事要了我的电话。
肉夹馍事件
高赞男所谓的相亲，是他说我给他帮忙，所以他请我吃饭，我们吃了门口的肉夹馍，我以要去超市买东西想拒绝他吃完肉夹馍还跟着我，但是他说陪我一起去，顺便帮我拿东西，介于吃人家的嘴软，我立马回了一整箱的酸奶。
恶魔之眼事件
高赞男可能觉得我们已经约会了，并且我对他很有意思，毕竟送了人家酸奶，天天微信轰炸，我给办公室给他微信的同事说的清清楚楚：我和他不合适，你给他说一下，别在给我发微信了。看到他的消息都心头一堵。
有一天高赞男告诉我给了我一个惊喜，让我快点去拿快递，上班期间一条条的微信问我快递拿了吗？喜欢吗？怎么还没去拿？我没拆没拿没签收，让他赶紧退货。说实话，施华洛世奇和我都不配那一千多块钱，我们又不熟，那个时候我连他家住哪里，几岁了，什么学历通通不知道，就知道个名字。高赞男说我不拿他也不退，我要是再不去，他就让快递小哥给我送到大厅。我直接让我同事回复他，别这么咄咄逼人。
生日鲜花事件
税务局的新人有多忙，可以问知乎和百度，而且我这种大龄新人，一旦出个差错，更是不可原谅，核对不完的数据，10月份的西南地区早晨7点多啊。前一天加班，周末睡得正香，电话一个接一个，小哥说有我的鲜花，我说我没定，他送错人了，核实之后再送吧。高赞男电话态度很不好，让我去税务局门口拿花。他说我懒，说我傲慢。我原话说的是："周末除非有紧急事情，早晨不要打扰我"。
税务局的门口，就算是有传送门我都不想去，更何况还有半个小时的公交车程。高赞男你用脚指头想一想，税务局周末不开门，天刚亮，你就让小哥在秋风中奔波凌乱，是谁的错？
但是鲜花买了不可以退，小哥的配送费不可退，我给了高赞男200块钱。我给小哥打电话，问小哥，对方有没有给你差评，如果差评了我去给他说，让他去改。然后我给高赞男打电话，就是说清楚这件事情，我们不合适不要缠着我。高赞男觉得伤了自尊，说我看不起人，嚣张，觉得遇到事情用钱解决，让我慢慢挑剔吧。
问题是，你别收我的钱啊，你怎么收了呢。
酒店事件
我们单位出差，高赞男从他朋友那里知道了我们的酒店地址，其实就是出差常驻酒店，高赞男以偶遇为由，非让我下去，要不然他就在酒店门口等着，这是什么性质啊？我们跨城出差都能遇到你。我说洗头睡觉了，有点冷，不下去了，高赞男问我在哪个房间，他要上来。我问他：你觉得上来合适吗？而且我们房间还有其他人。
高赞男问我我房间里是男的女的。出公差啊，单位安排住宿，你说是男的女的？
这件事情我真的很生气。
我承认肉夹馍事件我没有拒绝高赞男，毕竟那时候就拒绝，显得自己自作多情，万一人家就是比较友好热情呢。但是接下来的恶魔眼事件，鲜花事件，酒店事件，我哪一个不是拒绝的清清楚楚明明白白？因为这个事情，我的同事也很尴尬。我当时不敢得罪高赞男，因为有公务员试用期，那个点刚好是要转正期间，高赞男如此偏激，把他得罪了，去单位一闹，判我一个作风不检点。我千军万马走过独木桥，踏进了体制的大门，我真的担心被高赞男拽出来。
这是我和他所有的交集，我一没欠他任何钱，二没有欺骗他的感情。
现在我完全不怕了，已经转正，除非高赞男他爹是我们局长，否则他翻不起任何浪花。所以，我已经把他拉黑了。
我并不是慢热的人，我不知道他这一句慢热是从哪里来的，我和我老公2.14联谊认识，5月份订婚，年底结婚，婚纱照都拍完了。高赞男不是和96年的小妹子在谈恋爱吗?你怎么还有时间diss我，还有时间让我同事转达：他的小女友比我漂亮多了。
目前为止，我依旧不知道高赞男家住哪里、几岁了、学历是什么、家境如何，只知道他看起来不小了，饥渴难耐不择食，偏激傲慢，谎话连篇。
2.14线上联谊，线上视频直播连线、群内交流互动。当时疫情在家，各种校友线上联谊，地方线上联谊很多。
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More than 30 years old is a key period of career, if you do not like you are not energetic and you split sentiment, or avoid it, they will take the initiative to fight for their own, no number of you marry back is also a pile of troubles.
Sweet, a young girl, go and find them.
High praise direction is too obvious, female civil servant, rou jia mo, send flowers, the devil's eye, hit husband.
No accident is me.
Let me start by telling you why I started dating in 2019 when I was 31.
I reattended high school for one year, but my job after graduation was not ideal. I took the postgraduate entrance examination at the age of 24, landed in a university of Finance and Economics at 25, graduated from the postgraduate at 28, was rejected for the first public examination interview, and passed the provincial tax bureau at the age of 30. Before the age of 30, he was a civil servant. The university missed the best time to fall in love. I could not be distracted to find a boyfriend during the postgraduate entrance examination, the public entrance examination and the thesis.
Matchmaking events
Gao Zanan and I were not introduced to each other at all. He came to work in our bureau because he was a friend of my colleague. I was in charge of receiving him in the lobby as a newcomer and gave him a glass of water.
The rou jia mo incident
Gao Zhannan's so-called blind date, he said I help him, so he asked me to have a meal, we ate the door of the rou Jia mo, I want to go to the supermarket to buy something to refuse him to eat rou Jia mo also follow me, but he said to accompany me to go, by the way to help me take something, because people eat soft mouth, I immediately back to a whole box of yogurt.
The devil's Eye incident
Gao Zhannan may think that we have been dating, and I am very interesting to him, after all, sent someone else yogurt, wechat bombing every day, I gave the office to his wechat colleagues said clearly: I and he is not suitable, you say to him, don't send me wechat. The news about him was a bit of a shock.
One day gao Zhannan told me to give me a surprise, let me quickly to take the express, during the work of wechat one by one asked me to take the express? Like it? Why haven't you picked it up? I didn't open it or sign for it. Tell him to return it. To tell the truth, Swarovski and I do not deserve that more than a thousand dollars, we are not familiar, at that time I even his home where to live, a few years old, what education all do not know, know a name. Gao Zhannan said I don't take him also don't return, if I don't go, he let express boy to send me to the hall. I'll have my colleague respond to him. Don't be so pushy.
Birthday flower Event
You can ask zhihu and Baidu how busy a new person in the tax bureau is. What's more, if I make a mistake, it will be unforgivable for an old person like me. It is more than 7 o 'clock in the morning in southwest China in October. The day before overtime, the weekend sleep is sweet, phone one by one, the little brother said I have flowers, I said I did not decide, he sent the wrong person, after verification again send. Gao Zhannan telephone attitude is very bad, let me go to the tax office to take flowers. He said I was lazy. He said I was arrogant. My exact words were: "Don't bother me in the morning on weekends unless it's an emergency."
I don't want to go to the tax office even if it has a portal, and it's half an hour's bus ride away. Gao Praise male you use toe to think about, the tax bureau does not open the door on the weekend, the day just bright, you let the little elder brother rush about in the autumn wind messy, who is the fault?
But the flowers can not be refunded, the little brother's delivery fee can not be refunded, I gave Gao Zhan male 200 dollars. I call the little brother, ask the little brother, the other side has given you a bad review, if the bad review I said to him, let him to change. Then I call Gao Zhannan, just to make it clear that we are not suitable don't bother me. Gao Zhannan felt hurt self-esteem, said I look down on people, arrogant, think money to solve things, let me slowly pick on it.
The thing is, you don't want my money. Why do you?
Hotel event
Our unit is on a business trip, Gao Zannan knew our hotel address from his friend there, be be on a business trip to be resident hotel actually, Gao Zannan by chance for, non let me go down, otherwise he is waiting in the hotel door, what nature is this? We run into you on business trips across town. I said to wash the hair to sleep, a little cold, not go down, Gao Zhannan asked me in which room, he wanted to come up. I asked him: Do you think it's appropriate to come up? And there were other people in our room.
Gao Zhannan asked me if there were men or women in my room. Go out for business, the unit arranges accommodation, you say male female?
I'm really angry about this.
I admit that I did not reject Gao Zanan in the rou Jia mo event. After all, I refused at that time, which made me seem amorous. But then the devil's eye incident, the flower incident, the hotel incident, which one did I not say no to plain and simple? Because of this matter, my colleague is also very embarrassed. At that time, I did not dare to offend Gao Zanan, because I was on probation as a civil servant. At that point, I was about to become a full-time official. He was so extreme that I offended him. I walked across the log bridge, into the system of the door, I really worry about being dragged out by Gao Zhannan.
This is all I have in common with him. I don't owe him any money, and I don't cheat on him.
Now I am completely not afraid, has become a regular, unless Gao Zhan male his father is our director, otherwise he can not turn over any spray. So, I've already blocked him.
I am not a slow person, AND I don't know where his words come from. My husband and I met at a social meeting on February 14, got engaged in May, and got married at the end of the year. All the wedding photos were taken. Gao Zannan is not in love with the little sister of 96 years? How do you have time to diss me and tell my colleague that his little girlfriend is much more beautiful than I am?
So far, I still don't know where Gao Zannan lives, how old he is, what his education is, and how his family is. All I know is that he seems to be no small boy, hungry and hungry, unwilling to eat, extreme arrogance, and full of lies.
2.14 Online networking, online live video connection, communication and interaction within the group. At that time, the outbreak at home, a variety of alumni online fellowship, local online fellowship a lot.
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