流浪汉看到坐在莲花台上的菩萨非常羡慕。流浪汉:我可以和你换一下吗?菩萨:只要你不开口就可以。最后,流浪汉上了莲花台,始终没开口。
一日,来了个富翁。求赐美德。起身,他的钱包掉在地下。流浪汉想开口提醒,他想起了菩萨的话。
之后,来了个穷人。穷人:家里人病重,急需钱啊。磕头,起身,他看到掉在地上的钱包。穷人:菩萨显灵了。拿起钱包就走。流浪汉想开口那是人家丢的东西。又想起了菩萨的话。

这时,来了个渔民。求赐安全,出海没有风浪。磕头,起身,却被又进来的富翁揪住。两人扭打起来,富翁认定渔民拣走了钱包。
流浪汉看不下去并把真相告诉他们,一场纠纷平息了。
菩萨:还是去做流浪汉吧。你开口以为自己很公道,但是,穷人没有得到那笔救命钱;富人没有修来好德行,渔夫出海赶上了风浪葬身海底。要是你不开口,穷人家的命有救了;富人损失了一点钱但帮了别人积了德;而渔夫因为纠缠无法上船,躲过了风雨,至今还活着……

沉默,既是一种状态也是一种语言。对旁人,看透不说透是一种爱;对自己,让混乱的心变得清澈也是一种爱。沉默是我们内心的净土,最后的自由。很多时候无法保持沉默的根本原因在于我们起心动念,心猿意马的人想要保持闭口确实有些难度!
做到是一种境界,常人难以达成,但是看懂也是一种境界。至少能让你读懂对方的心思与意念,了解对方真正的需求与难言之隐,不至于领错情会错意,更不至于我们的行动错的无可救药!

想想一滴墨汁落在一杯清水里,水即变黑,不能喝了;一滴墨汁融在大海里,海依然蔚蓝。不熟的麦穗直刺刺地向上挺着,成熟的麦穗沉稳稳地垂着头。为什么呢? 前者是因为肚量不一样,后者是因为份量不一样。宽容别人,就是肚量;谦卑自己,就是份量;合在一起,就是一个人的质量。

沉默,恰恰是我们的肚量与份量最重要的表现形式之一,读懂沉默,清澈我心。学会沉默,真正是要学会心沉、意静、口闭。学会把圈子变小,把语言变美,把能力提升,把故事往心里收!
质量就在我们身边,沉默,既是状态也是语言。读懂沉默,就是要学会读懂这种特殊状态和语言所代表的真正含义。清澈我心,宽容别人,谦卑自己,提升我们做人的质量就是真正的读懂沉默!
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The tramp admired the bodhisattva sitting on the lotus platform. Tramp: can I exchange with you? Bodhisattva: as long as you can keep silence. Finally, the tramp went up to the lotus, and he never open his mouth.
One day, a rich man came to the temple to pray. As he got up, his wallet fell to the ground. The tramp tried to remind him, but he remembered the bodhisattva's words.
Then came a poor man. Poor man: our relatives are very sick. We need money badly. As he got up, he saw a wallet lying on the floor. Poor man: the bodhisattva appears. He picked up the wallet and leave it away. The tramp tried to open his mouth to say It was a lost object. Then he remembered the words of the bodhisattva. Then came a fisherman. He prayed for safety, and he hoped that there would be no waves when he fished. As he got up, he was seized by the previous rich man. The two men scuffled as the rich man thought the fisherman had taken his wallet.
Then came a fisherman. He prayed for safety. He hoped there would be no waves when he caught fish. As he got up, he was seized by the rich man who came in again. The two men scuffled as the rich man decided that the fisherman had picked up his wallet.
The homeless man couldn't help but tell the truth to them, which calmed a dispute. Bodhisattva: you are still suitable for a tramp. You speak for justice, but the poor do not get the money. The rich hasn't accumulated kindness; the fisherman went to the sea, meeting the wind and waves. If you don't speak, the poor family's life is saved; The rich lost a little money but helped someone else. And the fisherman couldn't get on the boat because he had to spend time argueing with the rich people...
Silence is both a state and a language. To others, it is a kind of love. To oneself, to make the heart of chaos become clear is a kind of love. Silence is our inner land and the last freedom. The root cause of the inability to keep silent is that we have ideas. It is difficult for people who have several minds to keep silent!
Doing one thing is a deep state, which is always difficult for us to achieve, but it is also a state of understanding. At least silence allows you to read the other person's thoughts, to understand the real needs and reasons of the other person. It will not make you misunderstanding or act!
Imagine if a drop of ink falls in a glass of water, then the water becomes black and we can't drink it. But if a drop of ink melts into the sea, the sea is still clear and blue. The unripe grain of wheat was sticking up, while the ripe wheat ear hung steadily. Why? The former is because of the difference in the capacity, and the later one is because of different sizes. To forgive others is tolerance. Humility is the personality; Together, it is someone's quality.
Silence is one of the most important forms of expression in our tolerance and humble. Understand silence and purify our mind. To learn to be silent is to learn to sink, to be quiet, not to talk. Learn to make the circle smaller, change our language to better, our ability, and hide our story in heart!
The quality is around us. Silence is both a state and a language. To read silence is to learn to read the meaning of this special state and language. Purifying the mind, forgiving others, humbling yourself, and improving the quality of our human beings is the true meaning of silence!
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